Sunday, March 18, 2007

My Boyfriend's Boyfriend

If you watch Scrubs you'll know that JD has Turk and in my case, Dara has David. David has been Dara's best friend since Dara moved to NZ 11 years ago. They are inseparable and unbreakable.

Today, I surprised my boyfriend by visiting him at his work and hanging out for a while. Lo and behold, 5 minutes after I got there, David was there "just saying hi."

On my second date with Dara, we were gonna have dinner and watch a movie when David called him. Dara had to go back to the ticket booth and buy him a special ticket. Then we went and picked him up. I went to the toilets and cried for half an hour. When I got out, he asked me if something was wrong. I sometimes cannot comprehend how dim guys can be sometimes. I told him to bring me home but he won't, so I didn't talk to him the whole night. I would have ditched him if he didn't realize his mistake and did everything to make it up for me. Now he doesn't bring David along unless he asks first, and we've come to a compromise. Once a week (Usually Friday nights) they have movie dates. That was last year, but now they just hang out and do "manly stuff" (play with the PS2 David gave him on his birthday).

Why haven't I whined to my boyfriend about this gay and uncool (for me) relationship? Because I know the importance of best friend and the super glue type bond these relationships have. There's no point in whining because I know that he'd rather lose me rather than him so I let them do what they want. It's not like it's harming our relationship, I just think it gets really really really really really annoying sometimes when he talks about his boyfriend a lot.

3 comments:

JENNY said...

when david gets a gf, he won't bother your bf anymore. but that would be like in how many years.. HEHEHE

fuseman said...

relax adeng...
its really hard work you know... all that PS2 hardware hahahhaha...
kidding.. take it easy kiddo he'll see it soon

Anonymous said...

Don't go to the toilets to cry. I'm here!